what makes us like rough sex?

[pinkpumps]

just the way it sounds, what attracts some of us towards rough sex? where we get so aroused by the thought and the act of getting hurt during sex? why?

aside from just enjoying it just because, what triggers this behavior to act and appreciate? just wondering .

[Enigma]

Domination, power, etc

[hortonpilot]

A rough guess?

Part of me is convinced people have problems with intimacy, even fundimental feelings.

So rough sex is an easy option for people afraid to feel.

Other part says rough sex can be a liberation.  But this is very different from people being hurt.

Some people get off on others experiencing pain, un-healthy.


Horton

[NickArsen]

- Watching some wild porn or normal movies which contains hard sex stuffs(Kind of rape, domination)
- Reading novels or stories containing such domination sex contents
- Over excitement due to alcoholic drinks or sex pills
- Inner imagination of sex in several matters
- Over weight

[rubbish]

I want to ask something

1. how to start to new post
2. i am a 23 year old virgin. i have been laid but only till base 3 and not the actual thing. I feel aroused very easily and my mind drifts thinking sexually about people i dont even know i want to stop this behaviour and want to treat girls just like a persons and not an object of sexual desire. can anyone please help with the same. Maybe some tips or anythin...
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THanks

[Lilybitch]

lol, Rough sex is part of your noobism, Frankly if you are banged thrice by a small guy, He will loose his domination and get slow, The main reason is its part of life, Whenever we do something new, We get excited, And 'sex' is a thing everyone get excited off

[Joseph]

It is a matter of power and domination. We like to be powerful and take over.

[sdsexaddict]

I would say the thrill and adrenalin of going to the edge of limits.

[Xen]

perhaps the answer lies more with one's upbringing? i know of a few people, partners and friends both, who "like it rough" and of those i knew well enough to have a conversation about personal matters, i noticed that most had rough or even abusive upbringings. and those with abusive childhoods were, shall we say, the "kinkier" types.

i myself like a little roughness, and had a...difficult childhood as well. makes me consider a link there.
however, if this is so. the question would be why?

[susie23]

the thing with sex is that it forces our bodies to relinquish our civilality and embrace our baser more animalistic nature.
now rough sex is like the most primal form of this it means that all modern notions of inhibitations, modesty, civiality and being gentle is removed and just leaves the raw sexual need humans experienced when we first started to evolve.
just like the song 'we ain't nothing but mamals, so lets do it like they do on the discovery channel'
i speak as a woman who really enjoys rough sex.

[Voix_Celeste]

I guess I don't even know what is this about, so I will ask: what is rough sex?