projection was the term i thought of too. projection is the identification of thoughts and feelings which are undesirable in the behaviour of other people. i am trying to think of a good way to explain it, i will come back to this later and try and describe the mechanism.
i agree with Corwin also it is not necessarily appropriate or inapporpriate actions that are projected onto other people in this manner.
it could also be argued that behvaiour is always appropriate for the functioning of that individual, even if other people consider it is inappropriate.
did you have a particular example in mind, maybe we could use it to understand the mechanism.