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Anal Phase
« on: August 18, 2010, 11:54:51 AM »
I have a problem coming into contact with my Ma.
She doesn't love me as much as my brother/ her son and beats me when I come to close.
She doesn't have and/or give much 'soul'.
That lack of giving love went that far that my father (has) abused me as a reaction.

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« Reply #1 on: September 16, 2010, 05:49:17 PM »
May i ask what is your gender, how old you are and since when has this been the case?
Also, please tell me a bit about your mother's general behavior with other people (her friends, her husband, strangers).
This will help me analize your situation and possibly help you.

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Re: Anal Phase
« Reply #2 on: September 16, 2010, 07:39:49 PM »
since i know this radical right-wing psychiatrist with his noblemen connects to my father's hometown, my mum suffer under compulsion. (my father abuses) :D
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Re: Anal Phase
« Reply #3 on: September 16, 2010, 08:04:17 PM »
How old are you dear???
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« Reply #4 on: September 17, 2010, 08:57:19 PM »
(Maybe a teacher of mine became father or something - i don't know)
In my anal phase i lost a cousin, a philosopher! He committed suicide and I had to flie...: my mum bate me all up!
 "Be ashamed! Be proud!" - and again -  [i]"Be ashamed, be proud!"[/i] -and nothing in between.

 My father again put (very) much hope in me. He loses it again almost each time (and that very fast).
All that together caused a MANIA (of which I am cured by now)
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« Reply #5 on: October 25, 2010, 11:05:59 AM »
My parents are ashamed of themselves - because they have only 7/ 10 years of school-education.
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ANAL STAGE
« Reply #6 on: April 20, 2011, 11:57:03 AM »
Hey Nata Eames! Can i contact you again?

THE PARENTS IDENTIFY WITH THEIR DAUGHTER INSTEAD OF RAISING/ EDUCATING HER! THEY WORK THEMSELVES ALL UP INTO HER HEAD! THEY ARE ALL ABSORBED WITH FINDING OUT WHAT'S GOING ON IN HER HEAD INSTEAD OF TALKING TO HER OR THINKING WITH HER! AND WITH THE CHARACTER THEY FIND, THEY DO UNREASONABLE, SOMETIMES MEAN THINGS (=WHATEVER THEY WANT).

THE DAUGHTER AGAIN LONGED ABROAD TO OTHER COUNTRIES / CULTURES AND AWAY FROM THE PARENTS, UNTIL SHE FAILED WITH HER FOREIGN STUDIES AND STARTED TO REACT MUCH AS HER PARENTS DID: SHE GOT ABSORBED WITH THE TEACHER WHO MADE HER FAIL!!! SHE WORKED HERSELF ALL UP TO THIS TEACHER!!! BECAUSE SHE TRIED TO IDENTIFY WITH HIM AND HIS WORK WHICH SHOULD BE HERS!!!

AND IT HAS BEEN PART OF HER THERAPY TO EXPRESS HER FEELINGS ABOUT THE TEACHER AND HIS WORK, UNTIL SHE (ME) DISCOVERS THAT THS S THE WAY HER (MY) PARENTS ARE: DUMB IDENTIFIERS WHO ABSORBE HER (HIS) MIND!


What to do with it now ?

 
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